If youโ€™re in a relationship to be happy, you will never be happy with whatever person you find.

The dependency will keep you from being selective enough to find the kind of person who will be good for you, or will keep you from being able to fully realize a relationship with a healthy person. If you are afraid of aloneness and abandonment, you cannot use the love of people who are truly there until you deal with your own fears. Watch this conversation on getting past the fear of abandonment, and scroll down for more.

 

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DISMISS MESSAGE
  • Strengthen your relationship with God. Make him your first priority so that you are not trying to get God needs met by a relationship with a person.
  • Strengthen your relationships with safe, healthy people. Make sure that you are not trying to get your people needs met by an unhealthy relationships.
  • The best boundary against giving in to bad relationships, less-than-satisfactory relationships, or bad dynamics in a good relationship is your not needing that relationship. And that is going to come from being grounded in God, grounded in a support system, working out your issues, having a full life, and pursuing wholeness. If you are doing those things, you will not be subject to saying yes when you should be saying no.
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