Those who have good boundaries have transcended the need for revenge.

They are not interested in settling the score or getting even. Revenge is for immature people, and they know that ultimately the offending person is going to get what he deserves without his needing to bring it about. Life has a way of making that happen. But even this ultimate payback is not something that those with healthy boundaries wish on another person, and that is the true hallmark of their character. They truly want the best for others, even those who do not do well by them.

 

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DISMISS MESSAGE
  • People who have healthy boundaries are not full of bitterness. They do not let a dirty world stain them and turn them into “one of them.” Instead, their goal is to turn the world and others into one of them — the kind of person who wants the best for everyone and wants everyone to do better than he or she is doing.
  • You don’t have to let a bad person off the hook if they’ve harmed you. That’s what justice is for, and one must endure consequences if your boundaries have been compromised. That’s different than seeking someone’s destruction.

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