It is easy to think that being totally available to struggling individuals is what they need. Sometimes that is true.

The Law of Responsibility says that you are responsible for yourself and to others. It is realizing the boundaries of what you are to worry about and how. There is nothing wrong with helping another person. It’s one of the foundations of relationships. But the lines must always be clear as to whether you are helping them to do what they should be doing, and thus empowering them, or if you are doing for them what they should be doing for themselves. I would like to invite you to join me in Boundaries.Me, where you’ll get access to my private community where I’m leading discussions around topics like codependency, and you’re surrounded by others who want to encourage and support you. Also, you’ll get unlimited access to my video library where I’ll provide you with the tools and resources to empower you to set boundaries and make decisions for creating healthy relationships that are fruitful to your life.