Boundaries with an Interrupting Spouse boundaries marriage relationships Feb 14, 2024

Boundaries are a crucial part of any healthy relationship, including marriage. They represent our "property lines," delineating where our responsibilities begin and end. In all relationships, whether with children, strangers, colleagues, or spouses, the principle remains consistent: we are in...

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Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity cheating infidelity marriage relationships trust Feb 07, 2024

Trust is a multifaceted concept, essential in all relationships, particularly in the context of infidelity. Understanding the anatomy of trust is crucial in the journey of rebuilding it. Trust isn't a monolithic entity; it's more like a mosaic, composed of various elements that, when combined,...

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Six Types of Conflict in Marriage conflict marriage Aug 01, 2022

Conflict is not all the same. The rules are different for different kinds of conflict. If one of you comes home late without calling, for example, then confession and an apology are in order. But if you are disagreeing about where to go for dinner, no one should have to grovel as if he has...

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Don’t Be the “Good” Spouse marriage relationships Jul 25, 2022

One aspect of setting limits with ourselves in marriage is the difficulty that comes in being the “good” spouse. In many marriages, one mate is more obviously selfish, irresponsible, withdrawn, or controlling. The other is perceived as a suffering saint, and people wonder how they...

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