When You Rescue An Angry Person ... You'll Only Have to Do It Again Mar 03, 2020

I was on a financial radio show taking calls about setting boundaries in families with financial issues. A woman called about her forty-year-old sister to whom she and her husband had been giving money for several years. It seemed that the sister had a lot of problems and “needed their...

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The Boundaries.Me Podcast: Lysa TerKeurst - Know Your Spiritual Capacity podcast Mar 03, 2020


Being honest with ourselves about what we can and can't put up with is crucial to becoming a healthy person. 

In this episode of Dr. Henry Cloud's Boundaries.Me podcast, Lysa TerKeurst shares a very personal story about how setting a boundary around her spiritual capacity changed her life....
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When Someone is Angry at Your Boundaries, it’s Their Problem, Not Yours Mar 02, 2020

When you establish a new boundary with someone else, the most common form of resistance one gets is anger. People who get angry at others for setting boundaries have a character problem. Self-centered, they think the world exists for them and their comfort. They see others as extensions of...

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You're Not Selfish For Doing This Dec 23, 2019


I just wanted to check in with you ahead of the next couple of days and ask ... What are you doing to ensure that your needs are being met right now? 

I want you to know that it's not selfish to put yourself first sometimes. It's OK to have some time to yourself, give yourself a break, rest,...

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Let's Talk About Your Boundaries Goals in Person! Dec 20, 2019

I’m going to make a quick list of things you don’t need to take with you into next year, or the next decade, for that matter. I mean, think about it — Not only do you have a chance to start over for the new year, you have the entire decade ahead of you. 

Here’s what...

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I Want to Fly You Out to Beverly Hills to Talk About Boundaries Dec 19, 2019

If you had a chance to sit down and ask me anything about boundaries, what would you want to know? 

More about boundaries in marriage (or with in-laws)?
More about boundaries with your family of origin? 
More about boundaries in your friendships?
More about boundaries with codependent...

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Why It's Difficult for Someone to Receive a Gift Dec 05, 2019

A person who gives often struggles to receive. Why is that? 

A hurt or a pain from the past makes it difficult to receive a gift -- whether it's a compliment or a present. A person who has trouble receiving a gift has likely been betrayed, struggles to feel worthy of someone's...

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Why Compliments Are One of the Best Ways to Improve a Relationship Dec 03, 2019

Think about the last time someone gave you a compliment. How did it make you feel?

Perhaps it was unexpected, and maybe you did something that you didn't think warranted any special attention. But that compliment instantly created a sense of connectedness and closeness to the person who gave it...

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Create Your Good Vibe Tribe for 2020 Dec 02, 2019

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Let Me Help You Change Your Life Dec 01, 2019

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Get the Boundaries You Need for a Lifetime Nov 30, 2019

We're onto Day 2 of the Black Friday and Cyber Monday Boundaries.me promotion. This thing doesn't last forever, so click here to save at least 33% on content that will actually change your life.

This is the only time of year that our annual memberships are just $72 (which works out to $6 per...

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Get Help From Me When You Need It Most Nov 29, 2019

 

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