We all have needs. From the most basic physiological requirements like food, water and shelter, to the higher yearnings for love, esteem and self-actualization. Psychologist Abraham Maslow laid out these universal human needs in his famous hierarchy. Understanding this hierarchy provides a...
We've all experienced anxiety at some point - that uneasy feeling of worry, fear, or dread about what's to come. Anxiety is a normal human emotion. But for some people, anxiety can start to dominate their lives, leading to panic attacks, avoidance of certain situations, and a constant state of...
We all want to be happy, but sometimes happiness can feel elusive - like a mirage that recedes no matter how far we walk towards the horizon. We may think if we just get that new job, buy that house, or find that perfect relationship, then we'll finally be happy. But the truth is, happiness isn't...
We all face moments of stress and worry in our lives, but for some, these feelings can spiral into persistent, overwhelming anxiety that interferes with daily functioning. If you've ever found yourself caught in a cycle of anxious thoughts, physical symptoms, and avoidance behaviors, you're not...
Stress. We all feel it. It's one of the great unifiers, an inevitable experience for all humans at different points in time. That pressure, that tension, that sense of being weighed down. "I'm sooooo stressed," we say. And we usually mean it in a bad way.
But what if I told you that stress isn't...
This mental health month, we're going to focus on a number of issues that are affecting too many people. Today, the focus is on anxiety, and particularly on how anxiety is often driven by a response to some of our deepest fears. On the surface, their symptoms and stories seem unique – from...
Jessie sat across from me, tears streaming down her face. "I thought this time would be different," she said between sobs. "I really believed he was the one."
After nine failed marriages, Jessie was understandably distraught. She couldn't fathom why she kept ending up with men who hurt her....
Recently, a woman in her fifties approached me. "I have a problem with my mother," she said. "She calls me all the time, sometimes more than once a day, and it's very inconvenient for me."
I asked what she'd like to be different. She said she wanted to talk to her mother 2-3 times per...
John and Denise had been married for 10 years, but Denise was still feeling unhappy and insecure. "When I was single, I was unhappy and insecure. Then I married John and became married, unhappy, and insecure," she told me.
This statement perfectly illustrates a common misconception that many...
Do you often find yourself stretched too thin, overwhelmed by commitments, and struggling to make progress on your personal goals? If so, you may need to set better boundaries. Healthy boundaries are essential for maintaining your emotional well-being, protecting your time and energy, and...
Dealing with a narcissist can be an emotionally draining and challenging experience. Narcissists often disregard personal boundaries, manipulate others to get their way, and leave their victims feeling powerless. However, by understanding the importance of setting boundaries and implementing...
Do you often find yourself overwhelmed, exhausted, or feeling like you're constantly giving more than you receive? Boundaries are essential for maintaining your mental health, fostering positive relationships, and ensuring that you have the time and energy to pursue your own goals and dreams.
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