Overcoming Your Trust Issues betrayal relationships trust Feb 23, 2024

Trust is the cornerstone of any meaningful relationship, whether personal, professional, or societal. It's what allows us to feel safe, to open up, and to invest in relationships without the constant fear of betrayal.

Understanding the elements of trust is crucial for building and maintaining...

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Why Some People Wind Up With the Wrong People Over and Over Again codependency relationships Feb 21, 2024

Relationships are hard. Picking the right person can often feel like a daunting journey, especially when one finds themselves repeatedly entangled with partners who are misaligned with their needs, values, or expectations. This pattern, though perplexing and frustrating, is not uncommon....

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Breaking the Negative Communication Cycle Feb 19, 2024

Couples often grapple with communication issues, a common yet challenging aspect of relationships. The heart of the matter lies in understanding and breaking negative communication cycles. Many couples fall into a trap of reactive patterns. When one partner feels unheard or criticized, they...

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What is Your Anger Trying to Tell You? Feb 16, 2024

Anger is often misconstrued and misunderstood. It's not just an emotion; it's a crucial signal. Anger alerts us to the fact that something is wrong, just as a flashing red light on a car's dashboard signals a potential problem. But how do we interpret this signal correctly?

Anger arises when our...

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Boundaries with an Interrupting Spouse boundaries marriage relationships Feb 14, 2024

Boundaries are a crucial part of any healthy relationship, including marriage. They represent our "property lines," delineating where our responsibilities begin and end. In all relationships, whether with children, strangers, colleagues, or spouses, the principle remains consistent: we are in...

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Breaking Free: Recognizing and Overcoming Spiritual Abuse christianity church faith relational spiritual abuse Feb 12, 2024

In the journey of spiritual exploration and growth, the essence of our immaterial life—the spiritual—stands as the cornerstone of our very existence. It's a realm that transcends the physical, shaping our relationships, our values, and our very sense of self. Yet, within this sacred...

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How Abandonment Issues Play Out In Relationships abandonment attachment relationships trauma Feb 09, 2024

Abandonment in early childhood can have profound effects on adult relationships, particularly in terms of attachment and trust. When parents or primary caregivers are inconsistent in their presence and support, it creates a deep-seated insecurity in children, which often manifests later in life....

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Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity cheating infidelity marriage relationships trust Feb 07, 2024

Trust is a multifaceted concept, essential in all relationships, particularly in the context of infidelity. Understanding the anatomy of trust is crucial in the journey of rebuilding it. Trust isn't a monolithic entity; it's more like a mosaic, composed of various elements that, when combined,...

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Living With a Narcissist gaslighting narcissism relationships Feb 05, 2024

Navigating through life with a partner who displays narcissistic tendencies can be a challenging and often isolating journey. The journey often begins with a sense of being elevated by the partner, only to later feel muted and unheard, as if their voice has been lost. This trajectory isn't...

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Without Listening There is No Connection Oct 27, 2023

Listening is so important. When someone doesn't listen, you don't feel like you're even there, or at least you don't feel like you're in the relationship. Without listening, there is no connection. And that's what's so important because everything thrives on being understood.

When we feel...

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Overcoming Shame is a Process Oct 25, 2023

Shame. It's something we all experience, yet it often makes us feel like something is uniquely wrong with us. I want to provide hope for you that there is a path to freedom from shame.

Shame originates from disconnection and broken relationships. We were designed for unconditional love and...

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What happens when we have bonding and connection issues? Oct 23, 2023

Bonding, connecting, and attaching with others is foundational for every human being. In our early months and years, we form attachments through being cared for and loved. This lays the groundwork for our ability to grow physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

When babies and young children...

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